You Didn’t PLAN this.

No one WANTS to drift away from their partner

No one makes a conscious decision to let things slip or slide.

To follow distraction and forget desire.

To prioritise their inbox and put off intimacy.

But it happens.

Quietly, subtly, and without anyone really noticing.

The truth is you are so busy troubleshooting and firefighting to stay ahead of the game at work, that you didn’t notice the embers are quietly burning themselves out at home.

Nothing’s Really Wrong

But it isn’t quite right either.

You can’t pinpoint exactly WHEN the little touches, the “in” jokes and secret couple codes started to fade out.

And you miss them.

Because you KNOW you love each other and you desperately want to recapture what you had…what you know you STILL have.

If you knew how to go about it, you’d fix it in a heartbeat.

You’ve Tried…But Nothing’s Really Changing

You know talking isn’t really getting you anywhere because you just keep going round in circles. One of you wants to sit down and figure it all out while the other doesn’t think there’s anything TO figure out.

Or maybe you’re both dodging the real issue – that you never really seem to make the time any more.

Building success and leaving a legacy have somewhat taken over, leaving less room for loving and living life.

Things aren’t SO bad that you’re thinking about therapy and you’re nowhere near considering  separation – but you DO know you do want things to change.

You’ve tried the vacation and the date nights, and while they gave a temporary lift, afterwards you both just slipped back into the same busy routines.

If this sounds familiar, I want to reassure you you’re not alone.

It’s not all downhill from here,

And it’s perfectly possible to turn things around.

What Most Couples Don’t Realise About Intimacy

Intimacy, desire – and ultimately sex – in a committed relationship are downstream from a whole host of other precursors and prerequisites:

• Physiology
• Emotional state
• Stress levels
• Routines and rhythms
• Attention and affection
• Communication and conversation

If these are neglected, mismanaged or taken for granted as is not unusual with driven, successful couples, then desire dries up and sex is off the menu.

And if either partner draws attention to this, it can start to feel like blame to the other.

Salsa dancing is a fun, practical and low pressure way of building all these precursors and prerequisites back into your lives – setting the scene for more effortless intimacy which just flows.

It’s a movement medicine which goes beyond words, and one which I’ve devoted my life to breaking down and teaching to those who want to experience human connection on an entirely different level.

Moving And Growing Together

Often what’s missing in a relationship is the mystery and curiosity which felt so exciting when you first met.

Salsa enables you to rediscover this by exploring the polarity and playfulness which are essential for desire, whilst redefining outdated roles and expanding touch based communication.

This creates such a powerful shift in couples’experience of  each other, and how they relate, that Salsa dancing becomes the trigger for deeper feelings of connection and togetherness.

Ready to Reset YOUR Relationship?

I’ve created a series of short trainings which will lay out the strategies I teach couples to rediscover their playful side and revitalise their connection.

The good news is they don’t ONLY work in the context of Salsa dancing.

They work in normal life too.

If you’re ready to explore these – and each other – more intimately and bring that excitement back into your lives, enter your details below: